I am also worried about getting too close to the people (Video 48b). Everyone wants to give me advice without prior permission or as if everyone just wants to dominate me or maybe it’s my inferiority that makes me feel so. I myself as well have no idea what life is. This is where generally we get trapped, (Video 257b) ‘either tell us what you are going to do or do as we say’ (or we may face a situation which doesn’t have a solution at all) (Video 105). Just because we don’t know is right, does that make the person opposite to us right …? Or maybe they are right and it’s just us who are trying to resist it like a kid. How can we know whether something is actually right or not irrespective of who is saying it …?
Consider the example of two boys. One’s father is a middle class job holder and the other is a successful investor. Both went to their fathers for advice whether they should become investors/traders or not. Very likely they will get quite opposite responses from them (not equally applicable in all situations). If you are born at one place you get one advice, if you are born at another place you get completely different advice about the same thing. How does one decide whether an actual thing is right or wrong ….? (irrespective of who is saying it). I don’t know what is right or wrong in reality. One can go to many people for advice, but how does he know which one to accept …? (Many of us go through this kind of situation. People giving us advice might be different and the situation we are seeking advice for may be different, but the frame-structure situation remains the same).
(Video 240), (Full video): He argued with his father to join military service. I don’t know whether he is an ungrateful son or the one of best Generals or both. Same thing can be said about Steve Jobs (Video 109), Jyotiba Phule, Gautam Buddha as well. All of them were ungrateful (Video 203). We all superficially admire them, but we don’t actually like them. Then why admire him in the first place …? We are in conflict with ourselves. Should one ever be loyal (mostly a blind faith) to someone or something …? ‘Being loyal = not allowed to raise questions’. Does having ‘Good’ intentions make someone ‘Right’ …? But at times, advice from our elders or well-wishers helps us as well. So, how to decide when to listen to someone and when not to …?
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